A memorable Observation: Living With Others

LIVING WITH OTHERS

Around mid-day on Friday, August 15, 1986, while excavating on the shore of Carver’s Pond, a gravestone—in one piece and undamaged—was unearthed from a very unlikely spot, only a few feet from the shore, certainly far from the nearest cemetery. The stone was cleaned up and carefully set aside.  It read:

Sarah Noyes, wife of Chaney Noyes,

born February 21, 1822

died, AUGUST 15, 1886.

In 1849, Sarah and Chaney built the big comfortable Federal home I now own and occupy.  They lived here together, until Sarah died, thirty-seven years later. 

This day, August 15, 1986, the day her gravestone was unearthed, was the one hundredth anniversary of her death.  Why her gravestone was found submerged on the shore was and remains s a mystery but clearly she’d been waiting to return home. 

That night Darlene, our customary babysitter, showed up around 6:00 to look after our daughter Katie.  I and Elaine, she lovely in a red dress, were headed out to the Haven for dinner with friends.

Darlene played with Katie for a while and then, around 7:00, took her upstairs to bed, read her a story or two then came back down and snuggled in on the couch to watch something interesting on TV. 

Around 7:30, she heard the kitchen door open, and someone come in.  Darlene called out from the couch, “Hello?”

There was no answer, but the footsteps came closer, from the kitchen, through the dining room.  Figuring it was one of us, she barely glanced over her shoulder when a woman, dressed in red—she did notice that much—walked through the dark hall and went upstairs.  Elaine had probably forgotten something.  Odd though, that she hadn’t said ‘hello’ or asked about Katie or even turned on a light. 

Time passed and no one came back downstairs and Darlene grew more and more anxious.  It would be at least an hour before we were expected to return from dinner. She got off the couch, stepped tentatively into the hall and turned on the light.  She turned on a light, then several, in the living room and inched toward the stairs that led to the second floor.  Peeking around the corner and upstairs into the darkness, she could see  there were no lights on upstairs either.  She tried to issue a hesitant ‘hello’ but merely croaked.  Trembling, she turned and, leaving all the lights on, retreated back to the den and there tried desperately to become one with the couch. 

Around 9:00 Elaine and I came home to find Darlene, a tiny knot among the cushions, peeking out from beneath a blanket.  She told us about the visitor in red that was still upstairs and then she hurried home.  That was over thirty years ago. 

Our cat does not navigate the hallway—where Darlene saw the figure in red—comfortably, and not at all unless the light is on. Then, sometimes, he skirts along quickly, more so recently, tail at attention, fur standing up, his back pressed against the north wall while hissing at the opposite side, until he emerges into the living room and retreats to a napping place at the opposite side of the room, not to sleep but to watch what only he sees.  And while he does often go upstairs, he will not come into our bedroom, often backing into a corner in the hall and snarling quietly but unmistakably, at our bedroom door.

No one has come downstairs yet that we know of, although several times in those thirty years, we’ve been awoken in our second-floor bedroom by a transient presence, usually at the foot of the bed, lovely in red but troubled.